10 Ways to Touch Your Man That Will Drive Him Wild | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

– Physical touch is important in any relationship and we're now discovering just how important physical touch is There was great book written by Gary Chapman called The 5 Love Languages and I loved this book because one of the love languages that people experience is physical touch

And what was ground breaking about this book is it made it okay that people actually receive love through these different languages and it actually created a new conversation for those people who physical touch, which is about 20% of all people, one in five people, their primary love language is touch So it's beyond just sexuality It's actually how they receive and want to give love in their relationships There was a great quote, in fact, that I read a while back, and the persons says, "Those who say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, is actually aiming too high" Now contrary to popular thought, there is actually more than just one place that you can touch a man to help him feel connection and help him feel love with you and to really turn him on

So in this video, we're gonna explore 10 ways to touch your man that will drive him wild Check it out (rock music) So let me start with a bit of a warning because we're gonna start with some non-sexual touch but things are gonna get a bit steamy in here towards the end of this video so you want to, no, I said steamy at the end of this video Okay, better So, you want a little bit of viewer discretion advised so if there are kiddies around, you might wanna get the kiddies out of the room because we're gonna go deep and real with the 10 ways to touch your man to drive him wild

And I also wanna say this, every man is different Part of what we learn from the Kinsey Reports and all of those sexual studies is that every one of us is different in how we want to express sexuality and what turns us on So your man is unique He's a unique individualized expression of himself so you wanna have a dialogue, a conversation with him and really explore what ways actually turn him on and use this as an experiment But we're gonna explore 10 things that you can actually try out and I'm sure that a few of these are actually going to hit the spot, if you know what I mean

So my team and I did a bunch of research and we found some great research done by a couple of British universities and a South African university that actually became one of the largest studies done on sensuality and sexuality and eroticism and what turns people on And the first thing that turns people on (buzzer buzzes) is not the feet, believe it or not, which is interesting because so many studies that we found in other places, oh the feet is a great erotic zone Now maybe for you it is I know it definitely is not for me but it found that in this study over 800 people ranked feet as one of the lowest erogenous zones on their body A lot of studies will say that feet are an erotic zone because the area in your brain that is responsible for the feet receptors is right next to the genitalia receptors and because they're so closely related is often shared as an erotic zone but the latest and greatest research say steer clear of the feet

Which brings me to our actual number one erogenous zone which is the hands and the forearm And it's actually touching the hands with the pads of your fingers real gently like this And what's kind of cool, and I find this cool cuz I'm kind of nerdy, is that neuroscientists have actually found out the right tempo to stroke his hand or his forearm Stroke really any part of the skin on his body and that's five centimeters a second, which is about this speed, actually creates the most sexual tension with that activity Number two is fingernails in the back of the head through the hair

This is awesome He is going to love this Oh man that feels good And especially when he's driving Try it when he's driving

Just reach over and put your fingernails in the back of his head He's gonna love this Oh yeah, oh thank you Number three is the ear and the ear lobe and this is how you work the ear and the ear lobe You can whisper something really sexy to him and move down and suck his ear lobe and even use your teeth to kinda give him a little bite on his ear lobe

But know this, every person actually has one side stronger than the other that's more erogenous So you can experiment with him, his right side or his left side, he's gonna have more of an emotional reaction, more of a sexual reaction to one side or the other So ask him, say, "Hey what, how do you want me to talk to you? What dirty thing can I say to you and let's experiment, what side do you like versus the other?" You have one side over the other that's more sexually active and so what you can do actually as an experiment is close your eyes, imagine someone that you would love to get down and dirty with, someone you'd love to be sexual with and what do you want them to say to you and then imagine they're saying it to you on your right side and see how you feel Imagine they're saying it to you on your left side, see how you feel And you'll notice, one side will have more energy than the other and you can teach your partner to talk dirty to you on that side

Number four is the back of the legs Now this one's an interesting one because they found that there were a few major differences in the research about what men found erotic and what women found erotic and women did not report back of the legs erotic but men reported it as erotic as their ear lobes So it's interesting because I don't, the back of the legs is flat for me personally but you might want to try this and massage, when you're giving him a back massage, work down to the back of the legs and work up towards the upper thighs and who knows, your man just might really like it Erogenous zone number five is his neck Little kisses, little nibbles on his neck, hickies if you're 13 years old

You can work the side of the neck You can even work the front of the neck The author of Sexual Reflexology talks about the thyroid, the organ on the front of the neck, is actually connected to your sexual organs So as you lick up the front of the neck, you lick up his Adam's apple, you're taking him to heaven, taking him to a whole nother level Number six is his face and jaw

Go ahead and stroke his face and jaw with your hands, especially when you're kissing because the jaw is linked to masculinity When you're stroking his jaw, you're going to ignite his masculine Number seven is stroke his lips See, we're used to kissing, obviously, lip to lip, but before you kiss him, gently explore his lips, gently touch his lips with your fingers and as you're exploring him, this actually builds the tension before the kiss Alright, we're gonna steam this up a little bit with number eight

Number eight is below the belly button It's actually the area between the belly button and his genitals And as you're stimulating that area, as you're stroking that area and you're going down to his area and then back up again to his belly button, that's creating this sexual tension that is rocketing through his entire body And number nine is similar It's his inner thighs

Just like you, the skin on the inner thighs of men is incredibly sensitive So as you're working towards the area, his penis, his genitals, you can stimulate the inner thigh and build that sexual tension That way it also creates that sexual tension stimulation throughout his entire body Number ten is the thumb See, lots of guys, we've been conditioned to focus on the penis for sexual pleasure but when you can begin to introduce other areas of the body for erotic experience, it begins to connect his whole body for a whole nother level of sensation and pleasure

So one way that you can use this is during foreplay, start playing with his hands and then suck on his thumb Many men report that their thumb, especially when you're sucking on their thumb, that's an erotic experience for them and it signals them to sucking on something else and possibly what's to come later on in the love-making experience The other way that you can use this is actually when you're making love with your man, suck on his thumb at the same time and that links his whole body together in another way that he probably hasn't experienced before So there you have it, 10 ways to touch your man to drive him wild And I would love to hear from you

What are some sexy ways that you have found to drive your man wild? Post those in the commments section below I'm sure this is gonna to be a very steamy conversation happening below this video And if you're not subscribed to this channel, take a moment, click that button, get subscribed, because we have rockstar community We have an amazing community of women, the conversations below are deep, they're supportive, and this is the place you can learn about how to expand your relationship skills and the love in your life Thanks so much for watchin

I'll see you soon That is very good That is very good Linked to masculinity Kind a like, kinda like that

And when you stroke his face, you are (laughs) Whoa, maybe not that thumb (upbeat music)